Grief by Suicide: Why It's A Different Journey

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Julia Samuel MBE
2 min videoWritten by a grief psychotherapist
Losing someone to suicide brings a particular kind of pain. The what ifs. The guilt. The quiet, unbearable question: could I have stopped this if I'd loved them better, called them sooner, done something differently?

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2 min 17 sec · Filmed Grief Works conversation
In this video, Julia talks honestly about why suicide grief carries so many layers, why families often feel like they failed, and why she describes suicide as "a heart attack of the brain." It's a reframe that doesn't take the pain away, but might help you stop blaming yourself.

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Julia Samuel MBE

Psychotherapist and co-creator of Grief Works

One of the world's most respected grief psychotherapists, with over 35 years' experience. Former Vice President of the BACP, MBE for services to the bereaved, Founder Patron of Child Bereavement UK, and bestselling author of Grief Works and This Too Shall Pass.

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